You may have been thinking about this for a while. You want to ask about their time in the military, but you are unsure how to begin. You do not want to cause harm. You do not want to reopen pain. You simply want to understand their life experiences more fully. Finding the right  questions to ask veterans  can feel delicate. When that veteran is your parent, the weight feels even heavier. You are not just asking about history. You are asking about a part of their identity tha